Posted by Don K on December 20, 2006, 9:21 am
> Lots of articles lately about the increased acceptance of re-gifting
> (giving a gift that you received from someone else). Do you re-gift?
I don't, but my wife does.
I only give gifts to the people I really care about, which boils
down to family, for me. My wife however, works in a school, and the
culture there seems to be to give gifts, willy-nilly, to any
staff member you've interacted with over the year.
Personally I think it's insane to go thru the ritual of picking
out (often) crappy gifts of sufficient dollar value, (so as not
to embarrass by comparisons) to give to casual work acquaintances.
Anyway this is usually the source of her re-gifts, which she
then passes on to other (un)lucky people.
> Would you be upset if you found out some of your gifts were re-gifted?
Yes.
Write me a note, draw me a picture, buy me a cup of coffee,
but don't give me your trash and call it a gift.
Don
Posted by Steve on December 20, 2006, 9:49 am
>Personally I think it's insane to go thru the ritual of picking
>out (often) crappy gifts of sufficient dollar value, (so as not
>to embarrass by comparisons) to give to casual work acquaintances.
Economists pretty much agree - http://www.slate.com/id/2155822
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Posted by Chloe on December 24, 2006, 12:20 pm
><snip>
> In the case of Christmas, some economists have made attempts to
> estimate gifts' sentimental value. In one study, economists created an
> auction in which they offered students money for their Christmas
> presents, asking them to split their price into material and
> sentimental value. The result - sentimental value accounted for about
> half the total. That more than offsets deadweight loss, suggesting
> that Christmas gift giving might not be such a bad thing when all
> factors are taken into account.
What an interesting post. This time of year I get various kinds of
expressions of appreciation from the church members I work for. I'm every
bit as gratified by a thoughtfully worded note or a carefully selected card
as I am by home-baked cookies or a small purchased gift. In this type of
situation, it really is the thought that counts.
But of course, that percentage of sentimental value definitely is
situation-dependent. My husband can attest to this from 35 years ago when he
gave me a Veg-o-Matic for Christmas. Bad scene--and a mistake he never made
again <g>.
Posted by Dennis on December 24, 2006, 12:28 pm
wrote:
>But of course, that percentage of sentimental value definitely is
>situation-dependent. My husband can attest to this from 35 years ago when he
>gave me a Veg-o-Matic for Christmas. Bad scene--and a mistake he never made
>again <g>.
Oh, oh -- are you saying my wife won't cherish that package of vacuum
cleaner bags I got her? I wonder if the the stores are still open...
Dennis (evil)
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